Toilets. I am terrified of using a strange toilet and will do anything not to go near a public one. A bush is fine or squashed between the car and the open door. Other people say that they have it too, but they mean that they don’t like the mess or the lack of comfortContinue reading “Toilets, underwear, getting trapped in a shop and girly stuff.”
Every moment of every day and most of the moments through the night, I reflect on what I have said and what I didn’t say; what everyone else said and what they didn’t say and whether or not I should or should not have done any of that. I plan in advance so I knowContinue reading “Over analysis, scripts and acceptance; what did I do wrong now?”
This needs to be in capital letters all of the way through. You need to know that I am shouting this as I type. I have tons of empathy. In fact, I have so much empathy that it ways me down and affects everything I do. I am autistic and I have even more empathyContinue reading “Autism and empathy – too much of it actually!”
I think, or at least, I hope, that the world is a better place now for children with autism. Whether it would have been better to know or not is something that I am debating and discussing with myself: I do not have the answer. What I do know is that all of the thingsContinue reading “I think that I am ok really: just wish someone else agreed.”
I included this in my first blog but now think that it might be helpful as a stand alone list. I know that I was desperately trying to find something to read that included some of my weirder traits. Maybe yours are like mine? Maybe we have found our mother planet? Would the real meContinue reading “Maybe all of this isn’t me being weird? Maybe I’m just autisic?”
The thing about this mask, is that if it was working then it might be worth leaving it on, but it isn’t. Well, that’s not entirely true. It works for a while but then I think that it starts to crack and sag. After 50 years of use it is not in very good shapeContinue reading “Can I take this mask off now please? It hurts.”
I had no idea that we weren’t all following the same script with the same rules. It will come as no surprise that I have made autism into my new special interest. I have read 15 books, hundreds of articles and probably thousands of posts and tweets by women who are diagnosed, by women whoContinue reading “What you see and hear probably isn’t.”
Women with autism are being misdiagnosed and misunderstood. We need to talk about this. Would the real me please step forward?